Why ?


Life is given to us, we earn it by giving it. ”

— Rabindranath Tagore


Human being always questions the quantum of existence. The human brain is a powerful problem-solving and prediction making machine and it operates via a multitude of feedback loops. What matters most in the feedback loop dynamic is input — what goes into the loop that begins the analysis-evaluation-action process, which ultimately results in an outcome. Here’s the kicker: if your input shuttle for achieving a goal lacks the critical, emotionally relevant component of belief, then the feedback loop is drained of octane from the start.  Another way to say that is — why would you expect a convincingly successful outcome when you haven’t convinced yourself that it’s possible? According to the researchers we have been told that because the tiny quantum particles are able to spontaneously reproduce, and that the Big Bang was able to randomly occur, there must be a superior being.. But it did get me thinking. Big Bang? ….Existence?…Life ?????

Why.Why???? But Why ?

The Big Bang theory is an effort to explain what happened at the very beginning of our universe. Discoveries in astronomy and physics have shown beyond a reasonable doubt that our universe did in fact have a beginning. Prior to that moment there was nothing; during and after that moment there was something: our universe. The big bang theory is an effort to explain what happened during and after that moment then we ,humans become curious about everything dont we ?Long time ago its been said that curiosity killed the cat but what is life without knowledge .what is life without exploring and adventure ,????I guess there will be nothing left for us to question …life will be non-existent… We all think this from time to time.  And you know what, sure, any of us experienced..Eureka ‘’ time when we were just pleased with our achieving  — all the more reason not to waste time thinking about it and hamstringing yourself from going after what you want to achieve.  Would you rather die as a monument to mediocrity or as someone who never quit striving?

Why ? If tomorrow never comes ….You wonder how you will be remembered.

The rub here is simply that, if you “die tomorrow,” will people remember you as someone who clung to stability like an existential life preserver — and is that what you really want?  I know for a fact that many people do want exactly that, because it’s a comfortable niche to occupy on the obituary page.  ”She/he was a good person, good friend, good….”  Good is fine, but it ain’t great. You can’t strive for great achievements by dropping anchor in Goodville.  My take on this is: it’s OK to wonder how you’ll be remembered, but don’t let thoughts of “good and nice and stable” effect that all important feedback loop, because if you do your brain will be happy to oblige with lots of good and little else.

Really, I see this as more of a prioritizing thing. If you have a purpose, it’ll be much easier to make those decisions that previously were ambigious. Now with a clear definition of why you’re doing something, you’ll know what to spend resources on to get the thing done.

 Needless to say, I always questioned things. If you don’t have a clear reason for doing something, you’re not going to be motivated to do it. As Jack London once said, “The proper function of man is to live, not to exist.”  Far too often we travel through life on autopilot, going through the motions, accepting what is, and having every day pass like the one before it.  Everything seems relatively normal and comfortable, except that constant twitch in the back of your mind that’s saying, “It’s time to make some changes.” Such wonderful insight! One thing I have learned is that we can not live happily if we don’t question things. I know when it comes to personal development it take maturity and growth to advance from eros (sexually / infatuation-al), to falleo (sp) (brotherly), into agape love. A key to success is understanding grace and unconditional care for others. There is a point in life when we cry out “I need help,” and we should be able to get it ,. I urge all those who are ready for success, to build confidence in them selves and others and those ready to build self esteem… move past simply motivational sayings and positive thinking and walk in agape love, be unconditional in caring and let grace abound in all that you do…Finally be again a kid and dont be afraid to ask questions …why , why ,why ????








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